Love is magic. It is the most beautiful thing in the world. If you find that special someone you can connect with, cherish that. Relationship is a tricky thing no matter if you are a male or female. It gets trickier when it comes to transgender people. Here are some tips for you to help you and her in your relationship.
Transgender women are female. This is obvious of course, but it still need to be emphasized. No matter what it is between their legs or how resistant you are to admit it, they are women. They perceive the world as female. They think as female, walk as female, etc. The sooner you realize the fact, the better you will be when dating them.
If you are attracted to a transgender woman, that does not make you gay or less of a man. That lead to the fact again that transgender women are women. They happily embrace their femininity, sometimes even more than cisgender women. You are attracted to their femininity and personalities, not their past or male parts. Trans dating does not make you less of a man.
Be romantic. Like any cisgender women, transgender women love romantic. Doing something unexpectedly romantic could make them feel special and loved. Find out what she likes. If she likes flower, send her favorite flower. If she likes eating, take her outside and eat delicious food or bring her snacks.
Do not initiate the topic about our male parts. Let them bring it up first. Do not let her believe that this is very important to you. You don't have to make a big deal out of it neither, even if you do think it is. For transgender people, it represents their hardest time. It is something that do not belong to them. Do not remind her of that oftenly. When you have a few dates, she will bring it up to you. Until then, you can hide your curiosities or concerns. As for the sex, it is all the same. They are interested in it too. Just have a little patient. They will be very willing to figure it out with you when they are ready.
Compliments always work. They want to be told that they are feminine, they are beautiful, they are sexy. Who doesn't like compliments, even for men. Compliments can boost their confidence, even more to transgender women than to cisgender women. They want to be held in your arm and feel being protected and safe.
Sex will come eventually if the relationship goes well. It is something that they want too. So do not hurry to it, especially when you are dating a transgender woman. Just imagine if you are dating a cisgender woman, it is your first date, you demonstrate your sexual desire, you may end up going home alone. If it is so for cisgender women, the situation will be 3 times harder for transgender women.
If you are going to develop a serious ts dating relationship with a woman, no matter it is a transgender woman or cisgender woman, remember to put her in the first place. Discover her preferences and dislikes. You will get her eventually.